21 Confidence Tricks Only Alpha Males Know || Hidden Signs of a Alpha Male
Hey everyone, and welcome to 90s Facts. Today, we are going to learn about 7 confidence tricks only alpha males know. Now, let’s begin;
Over the years I have personally learned
a lot about alpha males how they operate how and why they do things the way that they do and what makes girls go absolutely crazy for them and as you begin to understand these things you should be able to apply some of them to your own life and change the way that you do things so that you can get better results.
1. Fulfill Promises
We all talk about our goals and dreams, but only a small group of people actually follow through. If you want to cultivate self-confidence like an alpha male, you need to prove to the world, and to yourself, that your actions speak louder than your words. Otherwise, your dreams don’t mean much of anything. No one, including you, will value the things you say or the commitments you make. Not unless you genuinely believe in your ability to take action. Every alpha male understands the confidence-boosting power of this psychological trick. Day after day, alpha males find small ways to deliver on their promises and actualize their ideas. When alpha personalities create goals, they don’t talk about them. They achieve them. When alpha males make commitments, they don’t complain or make excuses. They follow through. Little by little, alpha males strengthen the power of their word. They find value in their personal promises, and they learn to take their dreams seriously.
If you want to develop unstoppable confidence, talk less and act more. Build your confidence and self-esteem by proving to yourself that you can do anything you set your mind to. That may mean chasing a promotion at work or finishing a personal project. You may want to connect with someone new or improve your lifestyle. Whatever promises you make to yourself, do everything you can to keep them. If you value your word above all else, you’ll not only achieve your goals, but you’ll develop the confidence to push them further.
2. Lower Your Walls
Self-confidence is not something you develop all on your own. In fact, some of the most confident people rely regularly on their friends, partners, and mentors. Alpha males, for example, gain confidence by leaning on strong friendships and deep, trusting bonds. In moments of doubt, they turn toward people who they trust and respect. They seek advice, field different perspectives, and find strength in the support their friends provide. Of course, not everyone has these trusting relationships to rely on during rough patches and moments of weakness. In fact, many people feel like they are missing someone trustworthy in their life — someone they can be truly vulnerable with. If you don’t have someone like this in your life, there’s something important you need to remember. It’s not because you’re insecure, unappealing, or unlikable. The reason you lack trustworthy people may be because you’re unwilling to offer your trust to the people you meet. In other words, if you never lower your walls, you may never build confidence-boosting connections. You may isolate yourself from the world and maintain emotional distance from the people in your life.It may take time, but you need to become accustomed to taking emotional risks.
Alpha males developed their strong connection by putting themselves in vulnerable positions and believing in their ability to succeed. They dared to lower their walls, and when they did… they discovered a world of opportunity. No matter how high you’ve built your walls, it’s time to start bringing them down. If you want to build self-confidence, challenge yourself to engage, bit by bit, with the world around you. It may feel like a risk. It may require a leap of faith. But each new connection you build gives you the confidence to grow and improve.
3. Authenticity Over Fake Kindness
Many guys pretend to be kind, considerate, and altruistic, so that other people will give them something in return. In many cases,
they act nice, only because they expect to receive attention, gratitude, or praise.
For example, let’s say you compliment someone’s clothes. Are you saying something nice because it’s really how you feel? Or are you fishing for a compliment of your own? This manipulative social tactic is used by “nice guys” everywhere. Not only is it a common sign of insecurity, but it’s a band-aid for a large, psychological problem. Receiving attention or praise is never going to teach you how to be confident in yourself.
You could be praised every moment of the day, and you still would find reasons to doubt your abilities. If you want to have the confidence of an alpha male, you need to concentrate on one thing above all else: in every situation, stay true to your authentic self. That’s how alpha males make such strong, confident impressions on the world around them. They’re honest about who they are, how they think, and how they behave. They don’t filter their thoughts. They don’t fish for compliments. And most of all, they don’t place harmful expectations on other people. Because of this unwavering honesty, other people gravitate toward alpha personalities. It’s comforting to know that someone doesn’t want or need anything from you. Every time they say or do something nice, you know it’s genuine. You know it comes from the bottom of their hearts. By expressing genuine kindness, you can embody the same confidence and security in your life. Because you don’t need praise or attention to be confident. All you need is a strong sense of who you are. Stay true to that person, and you will find enough confidence to last a lifetime.
4. Ignore Expectations In life,
you will wear many hats. You’ll fill many roles, take on many titles, and bear the burden of other people’s expectations. But if you want to increase your self-confidence, you can’t allow those roles,
titles, and expectations to limit your growth. Alpha males think, act, and live outside the box. In every situation, they find ways to express and protect their individuality. Because the only thing an alpha male wants to be… is themselves. They could care less about titles, groups, or social norms. Instead, they fight for what they want and ignore the expectations of others. It’s not always an easy thing to do, but you will always be your most confident…when you get to be yourself.
5. Laugh at Your Mistakes
People feel confident doing things they know how to do. On the flip side, you may feel insecure attempting things you have never done before. For many people, the fear of embarrassing themselves is strong enough to stop them from enjoying life’s many opportunities. Many alpha males gain confidence in their mistakes. How? By learning to laugh at themselves. They never take themselves too seriously, and they consistently see the funny side of every embarrassing situation. They don’t mind being the butt of a joke or letting their achievements go unnoticed. Alpha males can do this, because they don’t rely on other people to reinforce their egos or defend their pride. They have a strong sense of who they are, so they can accept their mistakes in ways many other people can’t. If you want to build self-confidence, don’t take yourself so seriously. Whenever possible, keep your ego in check and allow embarrassing moments to roll right off your skin. Ultimately, there’s nothing shameful about making a mistake, as long as you can smile, laugh, and move forward.
6. Learn New Things Few things boost your confidence
Like expanding your mind. Many alpha males are lifelong learners, who spend every day absorbing new information and tackling new ideas. They are constantly curious about the world around them,
and that curiosity gives them a unique, confident perspective on the world.
Often, we feel unconfident because we expect ourselves to know everything. But if you surrender those expectations and allow yourself to learn, something strange happens. Even though your expertise declines, your confidence increases. You gain self-esteem, and you find the courage to take intellectual risks. When there’s no pressure to be right, you’re not so afraid to be wrong. So, let yourself off the hook. Don’t be an expert. Instead, be a lifelong learner. Be the person with questions instead of answers. Not only will you develop confidence, but you’ll discover a world full of new and exciting opportunities.
7. Enjoy the Present
When we feel insecure, we crave a sense of certainty. We rush toward the finish line because we need something conclusive to ease our nerves. But, in these reckless moments of insecurity, we often sabotage our goals, our relationships, and even our self-esteem. We don’t allow life to take its course, simply because we’re desperate to feel like we are in control. The term “alpha male” is often equated with a strong sense of control. But it’s control that gives alpha males their unfaltering confidence. In fact, much of an alpha male’s confidence comes from their ability to let go. To put it simply, taking control is not always an option. In many situations, there is simply no way to know how things will play out. For this reason, many alpha personalities wield an impressive tolerance for surprises and new situations. They are flexible and confident in any environment, even if they don’t know what they’re doing.
Alpha males achieve this flexibility by letting go of the reins. They stay confident, even when their plans fall through, because they know that life is best taken one step at a time. If you want to be more confident, force yourself to slow down. Stop looking into the future and start paying attention to the present. Because the obstacles directly in front of you aren’t as challenging as you think. The more you live in the present, the easier it becomes to navigate unknown situations. Soon, you’ll discover the confidence to steer through unfamiliar territory and succeed despite the obstacles in your path. But how do you start wielding this kind of confidence in your life? All of these ideas can be summed up into one simple trick, which alpha males use time and time again. When you’re worried about the future or struggling to stay in control, sit down, lean back, and take a big breath. In that moment, remind yourself that there is only one thing you need to do. Enjoy the present, and the rest will come.
8. Alpha males hide their feelings
One of the craziest things that i ever learned about alpha males is that you can never really know how they feel about you something that drives girls absolutely insane it's not knowing whether or not a
guy likes them and alpha males have this game locked down because they almost never share how they feel about somebody the moment that you guys tell a girl that
you like her or the moment that you verbally let the cat out of the bag sonto speak there is no putting the cat back in the back one of the most important things that I've ever learned is that so many things in life are a struggle for power and it's kind of a harsh way to look at it.
But the person who has the power not just in relationships but in pretty much anything is the person who needs the other person less well the person who at least gives the appearance of needing the other person less so when you verbally tell a girl that you like her you have basically given up your power and your mystery by hiding their feelings alpha males keep you guessing so you never really know for sure if they like youn and this is especially powerful when it comes to females because girls always want to chase and pursue the guy who they aren't sure about or the mysterious guy with a guy who doesn't make it obvious that he likes her sometime when you're out in public you might come across a girl that is the best looking girl that you've ever seen in your entire life but you would never actually want to tell her that you think this even in long-term relationships you always want to remain slightly aloof or a little bit mysterious to keep them guessing as to how you truly feel about them it might be a good idea to keep your feelings to yourself rather than immediately telling a girl what you think of her
9. Alpha male self validate
If you ever wondered where the saying about the car you drive and how it relates to the size of certain other things that you have there's a saying that was actually
coined by women a long time ago and it
basically means that girls will look at guys who drive really nice cars and they will tend to assume that the man is compensating for something based on the car that he is driving now the truth is that as men we do try to compensate for things that we don't have such as charm charisma or good looks using material things like a really nice or really fast car i don't really know why we do it but we do so in many cases when a girl sees a man driving a really flashy car the first thought she might have to herself is asking the question what is he compensating for something that we all struggle with as men is validation seeking in the form of getting attention from girls or even just trying to make everyone else like us one of the craziest things that i ever learned about alpha males is that they have what is almost like the little reactor that sits in the chest of tony stark it's kind of a weird analogy.
But it makes perfect sense one of the things that makes alpha males so successful at what they do is that they truly do not need validation from other people and they have what is basically the equivalent of a self-validating reactor inside of them alpha males just don't care if other people like them or not they don't let the opinions of other people affect them everything they do actually reflects the ability to self-validate so instead of asking themselves is this going to offend somebody they ask themselves instead is this going to make me laugh or how's this gonna make me feel instead of constantly thinking about what everyone around them thinks they are asking themselves am i having fun or is this situation making me happy natural alpha males seem to have an innate ability to just not care what other people think of it so whenever they do or say something they look at it like what do i think about this instead of what will other people think about this.
10. Alpha males do as they please
One of the greatest differences between men who are perceived as alpha and men
who are not is permission alpha males tend
to do as they please and they don't ask
permission to do so the typical alpha male is the boss of his own life and he will steer it in whatever direction that he sees fit none of us want to be the guy who needs to ask permission to use the bathroom or the guy who must ask permission to take a day off of work alpha males don't ask permission before they say something because that's just how they operate girls tend to chase alpha males because alpha males don't wait for permission to make a move whether it's with a girl how they decide to make money or anything else in life there's an old saying that the early bird gets the word
the people who make the most money from
a trend are those who got in early and the earlier that you are able to get in when it comes to pretty much anything in life the better and to get in early you have to be the guy who does as he pleases or the guy who doesn't wait for permission from other people you have to be the guy who makes the bold moves who knows what he wants and who goes for it
11. Alpha males never let their emotions control their actions
How many times have we wanted to flip off the guy that just cut us off in traffic how many times have we got angry when somebody said something that insulted us
one of the craziest things that i ever learned about alpha males and easily the most important is that these men are able to separate their feelings or emotions from
their actions imagine if our old president decided to just hit the nuke button every time the news said something bad about him instead of simply tweeting about it
that probably wouldn't go down as the best decision that he's ever made one of the greatest skills that an alpha male has and one that all men should consistently strive to develop is the ability to separate their actons from their emotions acting purely based on emotions is not typically considered a masculine trait and good results or outcomes rarely occur when we make important decisions when emotions are running high separating your emotions from your actions is a core part of maintaining a masculine frame one of my favorite ways to think about this is to imagine that inside of your head there is a circular plate and on that plate is a little steel ball in life people and various circumstances will relentlessly pull and shake the plate in an attempt to make our ball roll off of it.
Alpha males are naturally really good at keeping their ball right in the center of the plate where it's the most balanced and where it is in the strongest position whenever we get filled with anger or when girls test us or when our dog doesn't listen we have to think about that steel ball and actively keep it centered in the middle of the plate where it is calm and where it is powerful a man who cannot control his emotions is vulnerable and extremely volatile and in the wrong situation acting with your emotions could easily destroy everything that you've worked hard for in your life stereotypical alpha males get a lot of hate but at the same time there are many things that can be learned from how these guys act and what you would do in any situation when you want to create a winning strategy is to take all the knowledge that you can from other people's strategies apply those to your strategy and then discard the rest that doesn't apply to you the guys who get the best results whether it's with girls or anything else in life are not those who copy word for word action for action the strategy of other men the men who get the best results are those who take bits and pieces from many strategies or from many sources of knowledge to form the strategy that ultimately works best for them and taking some of the greatest bits of wisdom from the so-called alpha male is one of the best ways to begin formulating the strategy that works best for you or to take the good and eliminate the bat.
These are some of the craziest things that i've ever learned about alpha males and how alpha males really act i know it's really easy for us to hate on these men who fit this stereotype perfectly but at the end of the day rather than hating on them the better thing to do would be to ask ourselves
instead what can we learn from them and with that said until next time
10 things that confident Alpha Male never under any circumstances do
Now you're ready confidence it's all about confidence if you feel good about yourself you feel good about the person you see looking back at you in the mirror every single aspect of your life gets better the truth is i have not always been a confident dude there was a lot in my life that i was very insecure i was very shy i was timid good news is that confidence is something you can build it's something you can develop.
i'm gonna go over 10 things that
confident Alpha males never under any circumstances do
No 1:
Confident men never bully or put other people down bullies are typically insecure people and what they do is they try to push other people around to make themselves feel better it's like if they're stronger if they can talk down to somebody they're gonna do it because in their head they're like yo this makes me feel better i'm the man i am superior to them when you're confident you try to help you try to lift people up and inspire them
No 2:
Confident men never do is they don't brag confident men aren't taking shirtless selfies they're not posting pictures of themselves with chicks and bikinis it's not what they do because confident men don't need to they don't need to brag and tell people how much money how amazing they are because everybody else already knows they're dope as bring us.
No 3:
Confident men don't constantly need validation from other people about how good they are how amazing how pretty how handsome how sexy confident men are self-assured and they're comfortable in their own skin they're well moisturized and super sexy skin bringing us to.
No 4:
Confident men don't not use tiege handling i don't need skin care skin care is for chicks
says dudes that are going to look wrinkled old and insecure confident men aren't afraid to take care of their face and they know that it's good for them they don't need permission they're like yo if i want to
use a moisturizer and possibly an eye cream i'm going to do it what has two thumbs and amazing skin this guy about you i know you got the thumbs the reason why you should start taking care of your skin whether or not you use t shanley or another subpar inferior skin care product is that when you take care of your skin you feel better about yourself your skin looks better one of the things that i'd never get tired of hearing is guys that start teach hanley and send us an email saying yo i started using tiege and right away my skin looked incredible if you want to look better you want to look good now you want to look good in years from now you want to be confident about your appearance you got to start taking care of it
No 5:
The fifth thing that confident men don't
do they're not overly sensitive confident men can take constructive criticism now this doesn't mean that criticism is fun to hear because criticism is never fun but they
understand that some criticism is actually designed to benefit them they hear it they listen they apply it i'm sorry okay i didn't mean it you're amazingly handsome just the way you are i'm sorry don't be mad at me what i did there acted all insecure apologizing all the time i'm not sorry at all
you could be better looking but the
No 6:
Confident men don't do they don't always apologize this is something that i struggle with even today like i am a people pleaser i never want anybody to be upset with me i never want anybody to be mad at me i'm always apologizing even when things aren't necessarily my fault just so that they're not mad whenever i find myself apologizing for things that i didn't do wrong or that's not my fault i know that that's my insecurity like one to creep out and i gotta i gotta harness it i gotta grab it and push that back down
No 7:
Confident men don't do they don't wait for life to happen they go out and grab it confident men know that success the only way they're gonna get it if they make it happen we are in control of our own destiny and this is something that confident men totally understand did you see what antonio was wearing in that last rmrs video see what i just did there i was gossiping about my boy antonio centeno confident men don't gossip or talk.
No 8:
confident men are like yo seriously like
i don't have time to hear about that nonsense i'm too busy kicking life's ass something that.
No 9:
Confident men don't do is they don't avoid eye contact it's abirthmark eye contact confident man know that it is important it is critical it's imperative to make eye contact with other people when you're talking to them because when you're not it makes you look timid it makes you look scared it makes you look weak and last but certainly not least.
No 10:
Confident men do not do is they don't stalk people on social media i'm just saying word on the street is that you're a little bit of a
creeper at times hey you i'm talking yeah you're like why alpha caught me oh my god he saw me creeping on brenda and sheila anddefinitely janice
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